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The Intro Call: How to Turn a Prospect Into a Client Without Pitching

May 31, 2024 · Bradley Jacobs

Every consulting engagement starts the same way: a call with a potential client. That call is not a formality. It's the moment that decides whether you end up with a polite “nice to meet you” or a $15,000-a-month retainer.

Plenty of smart, genuinely expert people freeze here and can't turn a prospect into a client. Usually the problem isn't what they're offering. It's how they're presenting it.

So let me walk you through how I run these calls. This goes past the standard sales pitch and into building a real connection and getting straight at what the client actually needs. Whether you've done this a hundred times or you're brand new, you can use every one of these.

Build rapport first

Every good conversation is a back-and-forth, and an intro call is no different. You don't know this person yet, so talk with them, not at them.

Open by finding common ground. Spend a couple of minutes on their weekend or what's coming up for them this week. Ask open questions that get them talking, like “What was the best part of your weekend?” or “Anything fun planned this week?” It sounds like small talk, but it's how you lay the first bricks of trust.

The soft pitch

Once you've got some rapport, take the wheel. Say something like, “Let's do quick intros on both sides, then I'd love to hear about your business. Sound good?” They'll say yes. I always go first, because it keeps things tight. Aim for 30 to 60 seconds. It sets the pace and shows you respect their time.

When you introduce yourself, include what I call a niche sentence. This is the soft pitch. Speak straight to their pain. Back when I worked with startup logistics companies trying to scale without piling on headcount, I'd open with: “Hi, I'm Bradley Jacobs, previously at Uber, where I did XYZ. Now I help early-stage tech companies grow efficiently without adding a lot of headcount.” That grabs attention and signals you're about solutions. Keep tweaking yours until it feels right. They'll give their intro back, and you're set up for a real conversation.

Qualify the fit

On the call, your main job is to figure out whether there's a real match between what they need and what you're great at. Here's how I work through it:

• Understand their main concern. Start with questions that get at what they're actually worried about. “What's keeping you up at night?” or “What are your immediate goals and the biggest things in the way?”
• Dig into the details. Once they're warmed up, move to the specific stuff that's in your wheelhouse. If you do marketing analytics for startups, you might ask:
• “How closely are you tracking customer acquisition cost?”
• “How are you measuring which marketing channels actually work?”
• “How do you weigh CAC against the lifetime value of a customer?”
• “Are you testing different approaches to improve your marketing?”

Questions like these show your expertise and tell you fast whether they've got a problem you're built to solve.

• Share what you've seen. As you go, you'll find natural spots to drop a quick story, like how you helped another company cut wasted marketing spend. It reinforces your expertise and makes the call better.

By the end, they'll usually reveal whether they're in over their head or have it handled. If they're stuck, they might ask for your help right there. Either way, you've laid the groundwork.

Move toward a commitment

Going from a friendly chat to an actual commitment doesn't have to be awkward. Once you've found their need and shown how you fit it, guide the conversation toward a next step.

Ask direct but thoughtful questions like, “How urgent is fixing this for you right now?” or “What have you already tried?” Those help the client feel the urgency themselves. When they start seeing you as part of the solution, the commitment stops feeling like a hard sell and just becomes the obvious next step.

Two techniques: mirroring and labeling

When the person across from you is quiet, two simple tactics get them talking. That matters for two reasons: you learn more about their business, and people enjoy talking about their own work.

The first is mirroring: repeat the last few words, or the gist, of what they just said. It shows you're listening and nudges them to keep going. If a client says, “We're struggling with project delivery timelines,” you say, “You're struggling with timelines.” That little echo gets them to open up about the specifics.

The second is labeling: put a name to what they seem to be feeling. Something like, “Sounds like the current project management tools are overwhelming you.” It validates how they feel and pulls you closer. Good labeling helps people put words to their frustrations, which sets up a solution-focused conversation.

Close it out

Near the end, mention specific things you talked about so they know you were paying attention. If there's a fit, tell them you'll send a proposal right away. If there isn't, ask for two introductions to people in their network (not one, not three, two is the sweet spot). And if you need more info, book the second call while you're still on the first. It keeps the momentum going.

Final thoughts

A great intro call isn't only about closing the deal. It's about opening doors and strengthening your name with every conversation. Each call is a chance to show what you know and how you work. Make a strong impression and you don't just win a client, you win someone who tells other people about you. Treat every call like it matters, because it does.